happiness

well.. whatever we do ( no matter what it is) we do it to be happy... let it be eating,hanging out,loafing around, playing... anything for that matter .. we do it for happiness...
when we see others touring all around or eating in good restaurant, or any couple making love... we feel they are so happy ...
but life is really balanced..
what we
case 1: a person whose is from a affluent background will obviously go to good restaurants,he 'll tour all around the world.. that may envy others(from not so affluent background).. but consider this .. suppose he goes to swiss for the first time he 'd enjoy it at the most, but when he goes there for the second time he may not enjoy to the extent he enjoyed for the first time.. and when he visits somewhere say ooty or shimla.. then he might feel what crap is this.. he will not enjoy at all..
case 2: a person whose is not from affluent background cannot afford to go to swiss .. but he will obviously dream of going there...the happiness which he gets after dreaming may not be as enthralling as literally going there,but he 'll dream many times... and upon that when he visits places such as ooty or shimla. he will feel like its next to heaven..so happiness is always balanced...
we might be thinking those who are born in africa are so illfated they dont have anything to eat or drink, leave apart other things like schooling and other enjoyment.. people in countries like uthopia and sudan spend almost 75% of their income on water.. but are we really happier than them???? america might be the richest and most powerful country in the world.. but are americans the happiest??? we might not feel anything when we are eating .. we will not even think that there are millions dying in the other part of the world due to hunger... but if a impoverished gets the same food he will feel thats the best thing that has ever happened to him..
he will so glad for that food that he can do anything for that...we would never ever dream of something like " will we get food tomorrow??".. but africans do it ,and in their dreams they 'll be having a big food feast.. that makes them really so happy...
so again here happiness is balanced..

so what now???
why should we feel jealous when we see people driving mercs ,when we know that they wont enjoy driving fiat, which we do atleast for now...and we will be happy when we dream of driving mercs( which they obviously dont)..we must keep in mind that the happiness index of every person is the same and we should never bother what others are doing ...