The phychological fear of losing.

In life ,whenever we get close to someone,we develop some kind of attachment towards them.You become close to them for some reason,and that reason could be anything.The waves from your brain will start resonating with the waves of the other person's waves(for that particular reason).the two waves will resonate only when there is a match in frequency and the amplitude of both the waves increases when they are together,,..And for any reason,if one of the waves start drifting from other , there 'll be a disturbance in the other. This disturbance can last for any amount of time , depending upon the type of person and also depending upon the amplitude which they reach when they are together..( Higher the amplitude, more is the disturbance)..
This phenomenon can be seen in any form of existence. It could be ur friend , with whom u could get along very well, and suddenly he/she starts ignoring you or starts spending more time with other person. This phenomenon can also be seen in mothers,whose son is getting married and she feels that his son will be controlled by her daughter-in-law and not by her anymore,she would feel so because for more than 20 years she has taken care of him and now she's losing control over him. this will lead to further tussle between mother and her daughter-in-law.
This phenomenon exists not only in human relation but also in organisation or anything for that matter. Eg, In any organisation if a very highly talented person is leaving the company,it will lead to "Fear" of losing him, and due to this distubance, the organisation will start offering him more money or promote him to higher position etc.
So, this Psychological fear of losing someone exits everywhere and the only way to overcome it is to pass through it. Feel the pain fully so that you'll totally overcome it and you will never face it again in your life.

space/time relativity and human character

We all think that bill gates,gorge bush,albert einsten etc are great great personalities . Even they might think that they are great or something. But are they really great?
It is said that , a mathematicians son will always be good at mathematics .. that is because right from his childhood his father will imbibe all the mathematical theories into his brain,he gives prominence to his mathematical ability.So here ,his surrounding space (i.e. his dad ,in this case ) has decided what he is. similar is the condition with all the great personalities,their surrounding space determines what they are. If I or you, were subjected to to the same surrounding space ,even we would have become like them.


Also,even the time determines the character of the person, Again take the mathematician's example.If his dad had tried to teach his son calculus when his son was 6 months old, it would have made no difference to the kid. But if he teaches him the same calculus at the age of 10 or so, then it will definitely make a difference.


We say,character of the person depends on his/her DNA content.But the DNA of a person is determined by the person's parents, whose DNA is inturn determined by their parents(biological ofcourse ). So here again the space determines the character of the person.
So whatever we do,it is determined by space/time to which we were subjected. Take an example,.. we cannot expect an arabic and an european to react in a similar way ( atleast majority of them) when they see a beautiful girl in a bikini.For an arabic person its a taboo thing,which none is supposed to do,but for an european its just so common ,which they see everyday and don't give damn about it. On the contrary,if an european sees a girl who is wearing a burkha ,they might feel awkward, but here the arabic person might take it as very normal.. so who is right and who is wrong??? well, there is no right or wrong.. it only the space/time which makes us think that this particular thing is right or wrong.
So everything and anything that happens in our life determines what we do in future( i.e. space/time determines) Me , writing this blog is determined( there is something that happened to me in the past,which made me to write this blog)Also , you reading this blog is also determined (there should be some reason why you are reading this..ofcourse i don no the reason)..
If i'm writin this blog .i'm not great and if you are reading and understanding this, even you are not special either.it is just a product of space/time which made us to do that event.whenever a scientist invents something,its not that he is great or something .It is just an output of the space/time which was supposed to happen and it just happened.When that scientist thinks that he is great ,there will be ego which will develop within himself , which will kill his intelligence( again a output of space/time)..
Again ,this event( you reading this piece of shit!!) will effect your future ,because everything and anything that happens to u determines ur future)






hmmm, uhhh.. well i seriously forgot what was i trying to prove(hmm, again this is product of space/time ,that was supposed to happen)...

Difference between and living and non -living

one question that i found most intriguing is that what actually is the difference between living and non-living???
well if i ask this question to anyone around they would obviously say something like
living people can move around whereas non-living cannot..
living people can think and they are intelligent ..
living people has emotions whereas non-living doesn't..
and what not... the list continues...
but what if we design a robot which has artificial intelligence..
which can think on its own ..(if we can develop a program to make it think then we can also develop program to express emotion)..
so where should we catagorize these robots??? they behave in exactly the same way as any other living being,execpt that the dermatological difference...

Also, we are made up of various molecules( our skin is made up of one kind of molecules our bones of other kind etc).. but these molecules are made up of atoms( usually Nitrogen ,oxygen and hydrogen )... even these the non living things are made up of various molecules (including Nitrogen , oxygen and hydrogen).. so wher comes the difference?? we both are made up of the same material....

the difference is that we think we are living .. we think we are superior to other things available around us..its our brain( even which is made up of some complex molecules and atoms afterall...) which takes electrical signals from various senses of our body and make us feel we are living...so, its actually a feeling that we are different from other things..

happiness

well.. whatever we do ( no matter what it is) we do it to be happy... let it be eating,hanging out,loafing around, playing... anything for that matter .. we do it for happiness...
when we see others touring all around or eating in good restaurant, or any couple making love... we feel they are so happy ...
but life is really balanced..
what we
case 1: a person whose is from a affluent background will obviously go to good restaurants,he 'll tour all around the world.. that may envy others(from not so affluent background).. but consider this .. suppose he goes to swiss for the first time he 'd enjoy it at the most, but when he goes there for the second time he may not enjoy to the extent he enjoyed for the first time.. and when he visits somewhere say ooty or shimla.. then he might feel what crap is this.. he will not enjoy at all..
case 2: a person whose is not from affluent background cannot afford to go to swiss .. but he will obviously dream of going there...the happiness which he gets after dreaming may not be as enthralling as literally going there,but he 'll dream many times... and upon that when he visits places such as ooty or shimla. he will feel like its next to heaven..so happiness is always balanced...
we might be thinking those who are born in africa are so illfated they dont have anything to eat or drink, leave apart other things like schooling and other enjoyment.. people in countries like uthopia and sudan spend almost 75% of their income on water.. but are we really happier than them???? america might be the richest and most powerful country in the world.. but are americans the happiest??? we might not feel anything when we are eating .. we will not even think that there are millions dying in the other part of the world due to hunger... but if a impoverished gets the same food he will feel thats the best thing that has ever happened to him..
he will so glad for that food that he can do anything for that...we would never ever dream of something like " will we get food tomorrow??".. but africans do it ,and in their dreams they 'll be having a big food feast.. that makes them really so happy...
so again here happiness is balanced..

so what now???
why should we feel jealous when we see people driving mercs ,when we know that they wont enjoy driving fiat, which we do atleast for now...and we will be happy when we dream of driving mercs( which they obviously dont)..we must keep in mind that the happiness index of every person is the same and we should never bother what others are doing ...

Sreesanth dance

Sreesanth dance after hitting Nel for a SIXER. Good going Sreesanth. Courtesy of Sheraz Productions.